Slowing Down Shifting Identities

It's December 20th, 2016, one day before we head into winter season here in Ithaca.  As this year wraps up, I'm thinking about change and new identities I have been called to embrace.  This year brought big changes in where my husband and I live, where we work and the expectation of a new family member.  While there is much joy and celebration within those life changes, the newness demands more of us than our regular routines in our old home of Brooklyn, NY.  We are building a new life, and within that new life, we have to adapt to how our identities have changed, acknowledge who we have become and who we are becoming.  I think change can be so subtle. It can impact my well being in seemingly minor ways until one day I find myself spent: craving pizza, comfies, netflix and down time.  These are good signs that I am on the verge of a burn out. Ultimately, I am approaching this winter as an opportunity to listen to my needs, not always easy for me especially during the holidays, and slow down the speed of the changes I have been experiencing.  Slow down to try and catch up with myself.  Slow down and catch up with all of my many selves.